I’ve followed Hyacinth’s blog for quite awhile and was quite intrigued by Boobday. I finally had enough courage to send Hy a picture of my own boobs last May for Boobday. Since my blog is fairly new, I thought I would post that first picture here and link it to Boobday for this week, another first for me.





12 beautiful bigger women show off their bodies for naked calendar

It’s taken me years, decades, to start to accept and appreciate my own body. I hated it for most of my life, felt like a failure because I didn’t look like my mother who was 5’8″ and 120 pounds. Even when I lost enough weight to get down to 120, there was no way I was going to gain four inches to tall and thin like her, so my efforts were deemed “not good enough”.

I love that I’m seeing more women in the media who look like me and it’s slowly becoming more acceptable to look like this and admit that you are attracted to people of size. But fat-shaming and, even worse, fat-baiting, still exists. We have a long way to go.

12 beautiful bigger women show off their bodies for naked calendar

Women of Size



Belly Buttons, Body Appreciation and Age

I read Molly’s blog post today and related to it so much, I posted a comment that I thought I would repost here.

This is Molly’s:

This was my response…

I kind of laughed at this and kind of cried because I can relate to this so well…. And then I had to look; do I even have a belly button? Yes, I think it’s in there somewhere…


I am old.. I am round… I have a big belly… and I just the opposite of firm, perky tits.. long saggy boobs.

I’ve spent most of my life hating my body. Being told I’m not good enough because I didn’t and don’t look like my mother. I finally gave up.

I’m trying now to appreciate my body for what it is.. I may not be a model.. never have been and never will be. I cannot go back in time and be 16 again, I have to accept that I’m now 66. My body has conceived six children, given birth to two and buried one. I’ve survived a car accident, cancer three times and drug addiction and I’m still breathing, so I guess I was meant to be here.

I would love to get my navel pierced.. but who would see it? Could I even see it?

I’d love to get my labia pierced, but what would their reaction be of an old (would they see ‘elderly’) woman who makes this request?

But few things that I’ve learned recently…

* We all are different, and just because porn and tumblr show all sexy women as thin and young, it doesn’t mean that they are the only ones that people find attractive.

* There are people who get turned on by bodies that look like mine.

* And 66 is not too old to be horny and sexually active.




Submission Is a Choice


If anyone had told me four years ago that I would be embracing this lifestyle, and would willingly want to be naked and kneeling before a Dominant man, I would have said they were crazy.

I was the alpha in most cases.. the one in charge, the controlling the show, although usually behind the scenes. I didn’t want the attention, I wanted to be the one making the decisions. I was and am I Feminist. Being submissive to me, was like being a doormat. Or so I thought.

I started talking to a friend who told me she was a submissive and at the time I questioned her sanity. She was also like me.. a controlling alpha female. She was a college professor in technology that was mostly a man’s world. And they were all listening to her and doing what she told him to do. So I was very surprised when she told me that she was a sexual submissive to her husband. At the time I didn’t understand what all that meant so she gave me some things to read.

I was enthralled!!

And suddenly, I understood and realized this is not only what I needed, but what I wanted. My friend told me that when she is the one who has to make all of the decisions all day long, it’s such a relief to let someone else make those decisions, including if and when she will have orgasm that night and how. I recently talked to a man who is a judge during his vanilla daytime life and a sexual submissive during is off hours kinky life. He voiced the very same sentiment.

I figured at my age, this was something I would only be able to experience from afar… with reading erotica and watching porn, since everything I read and saw showed mostly male Doms and female subs and all the subs I saw and read about were young, thin, with big tits. Well, I have the big tits okay, but the young and thin ship sailed long ago.

So I was surprised when an old friend started talking to me about sex, and then about D/s and wondered if I would like to try it out with him. I did and I haven’t looked back.

I now have a different Dominant, one who treats me with respect and honors my intellect, but still sees me as a sexy slut, one he calls his precious slut. And I call him Master.