‘The interplay of nipples and clit’

“Go and your get your clothespins.”

This was one of the first orders I had been given. I knew what they were for, I had read about them. Thirty years ago, I remember watching porn with my husband. In one segment, two women were standing in front of a mirror. I now know that one was a sub and the other a Domme. The Domme was clothed and the sub was naked, and her hands were cuffed behind her back. The Domme reached around and pulled one of the sub’s nipples out and clipped on a clothespin and the sub gasped. Then the Domme pulled out the other nipple and clipped on another clothespin and the sub gasped and moaned. It looked painful. It looked totally hot. The Domme then pushed the sub’s upper body forward so that she was slightly bent over. She flicked each clothespin with her fingers and the sub whimpered. Whispering soothing words to the sub, the Domme reached back and whacked the sub hard on her ass, which made the sub cry out. The Domme whacked her several more times between flicking the clothespins. The sub whimpered, gasped, cried and sobbed until tears flowed down her face cheeks and her ass cheeks were a bright pink. It was the hottest thing I’d ever seen and said so to my husband. He took out all the air from my sails by proclaiming it sick and disgusting. I never again mentioned my kinky fantasies, but I never forgot this one scene either. Even now, thinking about it makes my pussy throb. When I first started reading about BDSM and wondering, “could I do that?”, the top three things I wanted to try was… hand cuffs, being spanked and nipple clamps, and I’ve had a fascination with all three ever since.

The first time I had heard of the connection between nipple stimulation and how it affects arousal of the clitoris, I was a little skeptical, this was something brand new for me. Of course, I had never been with any man who cared about my orgasm, my tits and pussy were just for his amusement and the only time I was ever asked if I came was when it was important to his self-esteem. So having an orgasm by any means was foreign to me until I started masturbating. While I always enjoyed having my nipples sucked, no one ever lasted long enough to get me off, not even long enough to get me excited.

When I was told to put the clothespins on my nipples while he watched, I was nervous but very intrigued. This was also very new to me and I discovered I enjoyed being watched. The first clothespin on my nipple hurt more than I expected, but I wanted to obey him as I had promised to try to do and I wanted him to be pleased with me. The second clothespin didn’t hurt as much; in fact I started to noticed that I was getting aroused by it. I remember reading that many women said it felt like there was a direct link from their nipples to their clit and it sure started feeling that way to me. I could feel my pussy swelling and my clit becoming erect, again, something I wasn’t aware happened during sexual arousal. This was becoming a whole new education for me and I couldn’t get enough.

Now studies are showing that some women can orgasm strictly from nipple stimulation and there are many other kinds of orgasms as well. I mostly cum from clitoral pressure, rarely from vaginal, and never from g-spot, probably because my hands to too small to reach it.

But the nipple play could explain why I like nipple clamps and my tack bra so well. Both make me wet.

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